The mother loves her children and believes that all mothers in the world have the same mood. But some mothers complained when they saw their children disobedient or destroyed things randomly, and looked angry and impatient, so they would nag and scold them endlessly. In fact, when scolding a child, you cannot always say "you can't say such things" to him or make personal attacks, and completely deny his personality. In addition, if you do things that are beyond the child's ability, it will also lead to his naughty and unstable. The angry words you say when you are angry and scolded will sometimes become scars that will affect him throughout his life, or remain in his heart forever, causing serious adverse consequences for him in his future life, and even his children in the future. So before scolding bad things, please think twice.
1. Denied the child's personality
bother
Fool
Useless kid
2. Influence children's trust in their parents
I don't need you
Give you to someone else
You don't have to come back
Like your dad, not decent
3. Scaring the child and causing his uneasiness
Ask someone to get an injection
Tell me to the school teacher
Don't let you go to kindergarten (school)
Call the police...Uncle Jay will take you away
Call dad to scold you
4. Make unreasonable demands regardless of the child's ability.
Faster
Do a little better
Not even this
Can't break it
Why are you still wetting the bed?
Why don’t you say anything if you pee?
5. Compared with siblings and children of the same age
Wang Daming City, and you...
Brother Hongyuan can do it...
6. Orders that ignore children's needs
Not aware
Don't get dirty
Stop now
In addition, other words that accuse children of physical shortcomings and unprincipled rejections should be prohibited.
1. Denied the child's personality
bother
Fool
Useless kid
2. Influence children's trust in their parents
I don't need you
Give you to someone else
You don't have to come back
Like your dad, not decent
3. Scaring the child and causing his uneasiness
Ask someone to get an injection
Tell me to the school teacher
Don't let you go to kindergarten (school)
Call the police...Uncle Jay will take you away
Call dad to scold you
4. Make unreasonable demands regardless of the child's ability.
Faster
Do a little better
Not even this
Can't break it
Why are you still wetting the bed?
Why don’t you say anything if you pee?
5. Compared with siblings and children of the same age
Wang Daming City, and you...
Brother Hongyuan can do it...
6. Orders that ignore children's needs
Not aware
Don't get dirty
Stop now
In addition, other words that accuse children of physical shortcomings and unprincipled rejections should be prohibited.