Tian Jiagen (employee of a hotel in Shenzhen): As the saying goes: illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth. Therefore, when I go to work, I try to do as much as possible and speak less. Doing this will not only allow you to accumulate more work experience, but also allow busy work to eliminate extra time, avoiding bored chatting about other people's right and wrong. Even outside of work, I never give enough comments to my colleagues, but I naturally understand who is right and who is wrong. After getting along with colleagues for a long time, I will inevitably get bumpy and bumpy. I never care about such trivial matters. Even if I encounter slander and frame me by my colleagues. I just wiped this unhappiness gently like a spider silk, because I firmly believe that if you are upright, you will not be afraid of your shadow being wrong, and the incident will eventually come to an end. For those colleagues who have hurt me, as long as the storm has passed, I will never be upset. Isn’t it that “no gold is pure and no one is perfect”? It is the wisest choice to forgive others when you can. And I often ask myself. Am I at fault? Reflect more, give others happiness and give yourself convenience. If you deal with a colleague's relationship with this mentality, why should you ask a bodyguard to protect yourself, and why should you be dealt with for beating someone?
More tolerance and understanding
Tan Weihui (employee of a company in Longhua Town, Shenzhen): I told a story about "making the ground three feet":
In ancient times, a prime minister's housekeeper planned to build a back garden, hoping to leave a three-foot alley outside the garden, but the neighbor was a member of the house. He said that it was his territory and firmly opposed the alley construction. The housekeeper immediately compiled a book in the capital. After seeing the prime minister reply, the housekeeper gave up the original plan. The official was quite surprised and insisted on reading the prime minister's reply. It turned out that the prime minister wrote a poem: Thousand miles of letters are just for a wall, so what's wrong with him? The Great Wall of Thousand Miles is still there, and Qin Shihuang was gone. The official was deeply moved and took the initiative to make the ground three feet, and the last three feet alley turned into a six feet alley.
Tolerance is nectar, it can turn swords into jade. If colleagues have more tolerance and understanding, the relationship between colleagues will not be so difficult.
Keep an appropriate distance from colleagues
Liu Yuemei (company employee): I used to have a colleague who was a few years older than me. I always treated her as my elder sister and said everything in my heart. Unexpectedly, when she was rated as an advanced person at the end of the year, she had always thought she was good at performing well, so she insisted that it was me, the young girl who was a human resources manager, and she didn't believe it no matter how I explained it. From then on, we were both strangers. Soon, there were many rumors in the company. I was so angry that I was crying every day, not knowing how to clarify myself.
Later, I had to change jobs and change to another unit. Now, I only talk about work and not life with my colleagues in the company. I arrive on time to work and leave on time after get off work. None of my colleagues understands my private life, but everyone respects me very much because my work ability is not bad. I finally understand that many colleagues are not suitable for being friends. The most beautiful thing is to keep a certain distance between you and your colleagues.